Friday, February 8, 2013

A friend-ly Reminder


So this is how it feels when you get friendzone-d. You try so hard to save your friendship but you really just can't.

And the sad part is that you both knew you're giving each other "the special treatment" and then you realized that it's for different reasons. You were treating him special because he is special to you. But he was just treating you special because he thinks you deserve to be treated that way. There's nothing wrong with that except you would end up crying because you were misled by that so-called special treatment. And it hurts, especially when you found out the truth and it's no big deal to him.  So lesson learned, never assume.

You've never been through this weird feeling of hating and loving a person at the same time. It just doesn't make sense. You want to remain as his friend so you act normal, but you know you can't stop expecting something to happen in the future however hard you deny it. How do you make a feeling disappear? The more you try to kill it, the more it grows.

Guys, please be mindful of your words and actions because you could simply be playing with someone's heart unintentionally.

Girls, don't just guard your hearts but have extra padlocks and hammer with you just in case there are a lot of deceiving men out there who enjoy doing what they consider as normal.

-Lyka Asinas

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