Thursday, January 31, 2013

KOALA


Because we are both Koalas according to him. 

BOYS are LALALALALALA

Four different guys in your life.

Your best friend: He will always be there for you always. He would never let you down. He cares about you. He comforts you and protects you. He would never betray you so keep him in your heart.

The player: You can't help but to fall for him. He may be mean and arrogant. He seems to do everything right so you think you love him. But in the end, you find out you're just a toy to him, he lied to you and used you, and probably didn't really even care about you so forget him.

The enemy: He would do anything just to bring you down. He'll humiliate you and judge you. He embarrass you and will do anything he can just to make you feel smaller than what you are but just ignore him.

Your soul mate: He often turns out to be you're best friend. He tells you how it is, even if you don't want to hear the truth. He'll hold you and kiss you. He'll protect you and love you no matter what. You can talk to him about anything. He'll see you at your worse but still accept you. He sees you at your worse look but still think you're beautiful. He's there for you no matter what so love him. 

Are you with the RIGHT PARTNER?

REPOSTED : Are you with the RIGHT PARTNER?

During an open forum, a woman asked," How do I know if I am with the right person?"

The speaker then noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so he said, "It depends. Is that your partner?" In all seriousness, she answered "How do you know?" Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighing on your mind replied the speaker.

Here's the answer.

Every relationship has a CYCLE… In the beginning; you FALL IN LOVE with your partner. You anticipate their calls, want their touch, and like their individual or unique characteristics­ . Falling in love wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely NATURAL and SPONTANEOUS experience. You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called "FALLING" in LOVE.

People in love sometimes say, "I was swept off my feet."Picture the expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something happened TO YOU.

Falling in love is a PASSIVE and SPONTANEOUS experience. But after a few months or years of being together, the euphoria of love FADES. It's a natural cycle of EVERY relationship.

Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's individual or unique characteristics­ , instead of being cute, it'll drive you nuts. The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship; you will notice a dramatic DIFFERENCE between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.

At this point, you and/or your partner might start asking, "Am I with the right person?" And as you reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with SOMEONE ELSE. This is when relationships breakdown.

The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it's LEARNING to love the person you found.

People BLAME their partners for their unhappiness and look outside for fulfillment. Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes.

INFIDELITY is the most common. But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances. But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your relationship. It lies WITHIN IT...

I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY, you'd feel better. But you'd be in the SAME SITUATION a few years later.

Because (listen carefully to this):

The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it's LEARNING to love the person you found.

SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. You have to work on it day in and day out. It takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it demands WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to make it work. Make no mistake about it.

Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your partner). Just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there are also LAWS for relationships. If you know how to apply these laws, the results are PREDICTABLE.

Love is therefore a "DECISION". Not just a feeling.

Remember this always: It's not pre-determined who walks into your life. It is up to you to DECIDE who you let WALK AWAY, who you let STAY, and who you refuse to LET GO..

Wednesday, January 30, 2013

A love Letter to a Friend

I don't want to talk about it. how you broke my heart.....

Don't worry about me. I will be fine. And as time goes by I will be able to accept that we are not meant for each other. Just don't ask me about my feelings for you. And what I did to get rid it.

I just want to forget my feelings for you and be at your side , your loving friend that always been in your side, a friend that willing to listen in all your problems, a friend that is crazy when she is with you and a friend that will support you in your adventure in life.

I will find someone soon that will love me and care for me as much as you do. Someone that will feel the same way with me. And it that time comes I will be the most happiest person.

Just relax and don't mind me. I'm matured and strong enough to handle this feelings of mine for you.

I love you.... My dear friend..

And I don't want to talk about it. how you broke my heart.....

Sunday, January 27, 2013

The Hitch Quote

 When you're wondering what to say or how you look, just remember, she's already out with you. That means she said yes when she could have said no. That means she made a plan when she could have just blown you off. So that means it's no longer your job to make her like you. It's your job not to mess it up.
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Wednesday, January 23, 2013

Rejection and Pain


If you’re willing to risk, you’re willing to get hurt.

But if the outcome of risking is a chance at finding new love, would you stay and persist, or would you give up and carry on?



- http://bakliterati.net/2013/01/the-big-r/

Tuesday, January 22, 2013

Mistakes

"A man who has commited a mistake and doesn't correct, is making another mistake" - 


Confucius

I feel her :"(

5 minutes >=)

Forgiveness is about Maturity and Acceptance

The Little Things

Did you know the people that are the strongest are usually the most sensitive? Did you know the people who exhibit the most kindness are the first to get mistreated? Did you know the one who takes care of others all the time are usually the ones who need it the most? Did you know the 3 hardest things to say are I love you, I'm sorry, and Help me. Sometimes just because a person looks happy, you have to look past their smile and see how much pain they may be in.

FRIENDZONE

Sunday, January 13, 2013

BACk UP

HONESTLY, DON'T BE THAT GIRL. The girl who goes back continuously and thinks that every time will be different. I understand, you miss him and it's easier to breathe with him around. But isn't it happier to smile when he's not breaking up with you or getting mad at you for nothing? YOU DON'T DESERVE TO BE THE BACK UP. That girl that he drops and picks up whenever he feels like. Don't be that girl. That girl who thinks that each time he comes around, he means what he says and won't leave again, EVERYONE KNOWS HE WILL. And you end up looking like a FOOL in the end...AGAIN. I know that you're happier when he is texting you and cuddling with you. But aren't you happier when you are not crying on your floor because he hasn't said a word to you all day? NO ONE CAN TELL YOU WHO TO BE, BUT DON'T BE THAT GIRL. You're SMARTER than that girl. STRONGER than that girl. AND WORTH A HELL OF A LOT MORE THAN THAT GIRL. ;) :)

Thursday, January 10, 2013

EXPECTATION VS REALITY- FRIENDZONE

Seahorse vying for the attention of the Female seahorse



This image shoes three male seahorses vying for the attention of a female. The female chooses the one with the largest belly, and will then deposit up to 1,500 eggs in his pouch. He carries these for 9-45 days, when the baby seahorses emerge, tiny but fully formed. Once the infants emerge the male abandons them.

Jacracanda Street, Sydney, Australia.

Monday, January 7, 2013

Awesome Lovers..

‎45 LIFE LESSONS, WRITTEN BY A 90 YEAR OLD

1. Life isn’t fair, but it’s still good.
2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.
3. Life is too short not to enjoy it.
4. Your job won’t take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and family will.
5. Don’t buy stuff you don’t need.
6. You don’t have to win every argument. Stay true to yourself.
7. Cry with someone. It’s more healing than crying alone.
8. It’s OK to get angry with God. He can take it.
9. Save for things that matter.
10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.
11. Make peace with your past so it won’t screw up the present.
12. It’s OK to let your children see you cry.
13. Don’t compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn’t be in it.
15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye… But don’t worry; God never blinks.
16. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.
17. Get rid of anything that isn’t useful. Clutter weighs you down in many ways.
18. Whatever doesn’t kill you really does make you stronger.
19. It’s never too late to be happy. But it’s all up to you and no one else.
20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don’t take no for an answer.
21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don’t save it for a special occasion. Today is special.
22. Overprepare, then go with the flow.
23. Be eccentric now. Don’t wait for old age to wear purple.
24. The most important sex organ is the brain.
25. No one is in charge of your happiness but you.
26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words, ‘In five years, will this matter?’
27. Always choose Life.
28. Forgive but don’t forget.
29. What other people think of you is none of your business.
30. Time heals almost everything. Give Time time.
31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
32. Don’t take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
33. Believe in miracles.
34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn’t do.
35. Don’t audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.
36. Growing old beats the alternative — dying young.
37. Your children get only one childhood.
38. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.
39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.
40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else’s, we’d
grab ours back.
41. Envy is a waste of time. Accept what you already have, not what you think you need.
42. The best is yet to come…
43. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
44. Yield.
45. Life isn’t tied with a bow, but it’s still a gift.

Sunday, January 6, 2013

BEST RELATIONSHIP

The best relationship is when you two can act like lovers and best friends as well. When you have more playful moments than serious ones. When you can joke around, have unexpected hugs and random kisses. When you two give each other that specific stare and just smile. When you'll stay up all night just to settle your arguments and problems. When you can completely act yourself and they still love you for who you are.

MAKING A COMMERCIAL

I might not be one of the prettiest, one of the smartest and one of the coolest. But I'm surely ONE of the STRONGEST & ONE of the BRAVEST.

HAPPINESS :)

Being happy doesn't mean that everything is perfect. It means that you've decided to look beyond the imperfections. It's accepting who you are; the good, the bad and the ugly. It's knowing that you are doing the best you can do, and being content with that. Though we make plans, set goals, attempt to follow our dreams, and we find out that not everything in our lives will go according as planned, one must soundly make the decision to look at life positively instead of negatively. One must be willing to move forward in times of turmoil, and eventually one day that person will realize what being happy in life really consists of. :)

SUCCESS

Friday, January 4, 2013

New Year Eve's

A story of a surviving family.

Ehri was the third eldest from the nine siblings. She was away from his family since her work is far from their home she just visited them during weekends and go with them to attend church services. Ehri father passed away year 2009. According to the doctor's her father died either of heart attack or some stem of it's brain collapse. But Ehri think it was both since his father was a chain smoker. After a year her mother started to having affairs with guys 10 years younger on her and worst guys who are separated on their wives. Her brother (the bread winner that time)who was in abroad get home March 2010. And the major reason of his brother going home is because of his girl friend here in Philippines he is planning to marry her the twist is he haven't seen the girl personally they've just met on internet and their relationship build up because of text and calls. But after four months their relationship lasts. His girlfriend end it. From March -December her brother was jobless, arrogant, depressed and non-existent

Because of this unfortunate events Ehri siblings suffers. One of her sister stop studying, their utilities is cut out and her siblings eat the same food always or eat nothing at all. 

New year eve Ehri and her siblings having a conversation on happy thoughts then one of her sister tell her experience/confession on how blessed she is and their family. She remembers before when they don't have water she always pray that it will rain so they can have water to clean dishes, wash their clothes and they could take bath. Fortunately when they pray it started to rain. One moment she shared it was dawn and it's raining she is thinking if she was going to wake up just to take bath on the rain. Then her other sister also shared that she she have the same feeling and when the rain comes out she ready the water container and play on the rain to take bath. Ehri can help but laugh because on how her sister narrate their experience. And then her other sister said they ate lugaw always because that's their budget could afford. And she remembers how their brother complain about their food. They also shared that they ate all the TALBOS NG KAMOTE in our yard. They already try different dishes from it. And then her younger brother said that he always wishes that he can always harvest from our yards well his younger brother doesn't eat vegetable that's why he counting on KAMOTE the her sister laugh from it whenever their little brother wishes for that because KAMOTE can harvested every 5 months he is wishing for IMPOSSIBLE.

From that confession and sharing of experience EHRI realizes that her sibling is growing matured and stronger. And she think that their love for each other was the best things happens on them...