Tuesday, February 28, 2012

Fault Finder

These past few days I read, heard and seen people criticize and scold someone by their fault and even others fault. I was so pissed of with these so called FAULT FINDERS. They were so perfectionist and insensitive.
It's not bad to tell somebody their faults, if it for their own good and betterment and the way or the approach has been delivered on the person is OBJECTIVE and on the RIGHT time. But if you will telling someone fault to judge his/her wholeness and personality well HONEY your such an EVIL person. What is your problem? and it is feels good to destroy somebody personality, it that the way you become happy be seeing someone torn, sad and destroy on what did you said and act. 

FACT: Fault finders will make your fault bigger and bigger, will make you feel that you didn't have achieve anything or for the win you are always WRONG and a LOSER. They make simple things bigger. And they also assumed that they can read people minds. When they said something, it is only the truth and other options is invalid, objectionable and false. They will never put down there pride and they will not say sorry. They have a motto "Sorry for being real". I just so hate Fault finder. I've always forgiven them when they are bitching but they should also be given a lesson that they should realize that not of the people will forgive them and take everything that they would tell.

For me FAULT FINDERS person should change their attitude and perspective in life. Maybe someday they will wake up that the people that care and listening to them will just disappeared. Because they are tired of listening, understanding and caring. And the more they agree and deprive the attitude of this FAULT FINDER, it will become worst and proud of themselves. 

A little advice for them "Start looking at  yourself before you judge other and taught a constructive way on how they will tell someone their fault and finally tell somebody fault to HELP not to INSIST your opinions, DESTROY someone personality and lastly don't always JUDGE someone point of view, opinions and capability.

To those who will read this and felt guilty. Then be guilty if you want and this is my own opinion.

Wednesday, February 22, 2012

Purple Eyes and Other Interesting Anomalies
If you have read any of the statistics of my Daria-based fan fiction characters or any of my stories about those characters, you will have noticed that three of my characters (Raven, Rebecca, and Zia) have deep purple eyes. It's not because they wear contacts in order to hide their real eye colors. It's because of a genetic mutation called "Alexandria's Genesis."
The Origins of the "Genesis"
"Alexandria's Genesis," as it has been called since the 1960s, is a genetic mutation generally found in women of Euro-American (a.k.a., Caucasian) descent. This mutation can be traced as far as the Middle Ages in Northern Europe. The first known record of "Alexandria's Genesis" was written in the year CE 1330 (Common Era).




A woman named Alexandria Augustine came into the world on April 29, CE 1329 in London, England. At the time, she appeared to be normal, but her parents soon noticed that her eyes were changing from the blue eyes Alexandria had at birth to the purple eyes she would have by her first birthday. The parents were startled by this dramatic change. They took her to their priest, thinking that a witch did this to their child, and that the priest might be able to ask God to change the eye color back. The priest told the parents that it was not the work of the devil, but a myth come true. This particular priest had heard a story about a race of people who had purple eyes. These humans were thought to have come from Egypt after a mysterious light flashed in the sky during a moonless night thousands of years ago. The purple-eyed humans also had very fair skin, and were thought to be spirits because of their appearance. The so-called "spirit people" eventually went north and vanished without a trace. The priest told her parents not to worry, for they had a special child in their hands and they should take good care of her.
Eventually, Alexandria grew up to be a very beautiful woman, got married, had four children (all four were girls, and all four also had the mutation), never got sick, and died at the age of 150 of natural causes. It is this discovery that helped to name the genetic mutation when the gene was discovered in 1968.


The Characteristics of "Alexandria's Genesis"
The first characteristic of people with "Alexandria's Genesis" is their eye color. When someone is born with this genetic mutation, the eyes are either blue or gray at birth. At six months, the eyes begin their transformation from the original color to purple. This process is completed by the person's first birthday. A second process, where the eye color deepens, starts as soon as the first is completed. This slow process continues until the onset of puberty. By then, the eye will have become a dark purple, a deep purple, a royal purple, or a violet-blue color, and will be that color for the rest of their time. These changes do not affect the person's eyesight, though. If anything, the eyesight is, and remains until death, 20/20.
Speaking of puberty, those who have the mutation will never grow any facial, body, pubic, or anal hair during this stage of growth. In fact, the only hair they will ever have is what is on their heads, in their ears and nose, their eyebrows, and their eyelashes. Women also have an added bonus beyond never having to shave: never buying tampons or pads. It turns out that females born with "Alexandria's Genesis" never menstruate in their lives. They are fertile, however, and can go through the same things that women without the mutation can go through every month. Beyond these differences, those with the mutation go through puberty as normally as everyone else does.
Below are all of the characteristics of "Alexandria's Genesis."
Clear, silver-like purple eyes (after 1st birthday; deepen in color until onset of puberty)
No facial or body hair growth beyond what was already there at birth
Dark brown or black hair
Shimmering white skin that resist tanning and burning
Lack of menstruation cycle (in women)
Highly evolved immune system (has been known to resist every disease known to man so far)
Appear 5-20 years younger (after the age of 21, the aging process slows down greatly; it stops completely between the ages of 40-50)
Long life span (ranges from 130-170 years)
Perfect vision
Never overweight (their metabolism prevents the gaining of too much fat [a.k.a., partial lipodystophy])
Well-developed and proportioned bodies
Found mainly in women of Euro-American descent
Women are the primary carriers of the mutation
Children born from mothers with the mutation are also carriers
Mutation remains active generation after generation
Mutation grows stronger generation after generation


Interracial Children of the "Genesis"
An interesting aspect of this mutation is that if it passed on to a child whose mother or father is not of Euro-American descent, the child will receive all of the qualities of those who have the gene. The only quality that changes is the skin color; it is lighter than those without the gene are, but it is not as light as the parent with the mutation is. So far, this gene has shown up in children whose mother or father was Hispanic, Asian, or Arabic. If these children were to marry someone within their own race, their offspring would also develop the same characteristics. The most startling aspect of the biracial "Genesis" children is that they take on a more Euro-American appearance. Not much more is known about these children beyond these initial findings.


Another Interesting Development
In ten percent of the population that has "Alexandria's Genesis," there is another characteristic of this mutation that is increasing on a yearly basis: the processing of human waste… or lack thereof.
As it turns out, in some of these people, the mutation is actually causing the digestive system to produce no waste. No one has found out how this is possible, but most scientists have a theory that may explain this increasing phenomenon.
The digestion process goes through its normal procedure until the digested product enters the large intestine. It is there, scientists suggest, that the large intestine absorbs everything and uses the product to keep the body in top shape. This makes the bladder completely useless, and leaves the small intestine and rectum as just an opening. It is not much of a theory, since very little is still known about "Alexandria's Genesis."


Conclusion
There are questions about this genetic mutation that remain unanswered. The biggest question left unanswered is where "Alexandria's Genesis" actually first appeared. Many researchers are looking into the myth of the "spirit people" of Egypt in order to find out if this mutation really did exist several thousands of years ago. If that is indeed the case, the next question to be answered is if this mutation is of Earth origin… or of a different place.

Hopeless Dream

Last Night. I dreamed that I with the guy that I'm starting to let go (Mr. Random) we are at the street chatting. Suddenly he just hold my hand tightly. I'm surprised on his acts that time. And I'm so EVER Speechless. At first i tried to get away his hand from my hand but he hold it tightly until I hold his hand. We walk on the street holding hands, my heart race at that time and that was best moment of my life. Until I woke up and realized that it was just a DReam, a hopeless dream of mind. It makes me smile because on dream I can be with him. I decided that we will stay as FRIEND and I would not ask for more. I like to protect the relationship that we have. And I know that our feelings is not MUTUAL just he said before he can just think of me as his Girlfriend and everything when I heard this words before I felt pity for myself for the second time around I'd love at the wrong time and all of my investment on loving him is wasted and useless. Supposed to be on that moment and time I should stop communicating and interacting with him because I felt cheated and everything. I don't want to see him because whenever I see him I felt down and a loser, I over assume everything he does for me and over reacted my thoughts and interpretation.

As of today, I don't know but we talk, chat and see that nothing happen it just like we stay as friends and as days goes by our friendship get tougher and stronger. I openly tell to him if I'm worried, aloof and angry with him. And he bitch and bully me whenever he sees me, it seems that his day will not be completed if he will not bully me. I don't know but I don't want to open up the issue of my confession to him when we see

I'm accepting the fact that our friendship might not be lasts. He has a lot of priorities and friends that needed him. And i don't want to steal away from him the stuff that help him to grow and be a better man. For myself I'm planning to make a distant from him. I'm good of acting whenever his with me I used to poker face, I don't show to him how happy I am when I'm with him because I don't want also to misinterpret me. I wanted to show him that I moved on from him and the concerned and worried I felt and show for him is totally friendship. I'm convincing myself that I should Move-on  and keep on my mind he would not love me back the way the i like to be love.

One thing I'm wishing and hoping is I could erase this feeling for him and try to love somebody that I think will love me back as I wished. And our feeling for each other is mutual. Help myself to lessen my worries and concern for him because it would be the sign that I already move-on for him and I wanted to be HAppy and free from him.







Wrong Slippers

Yesterday my friends is with me on my office together with our other friends. After of our chats and joke. My other friend would like to leave at the office when he laugh so hard all of the sudden. I'm surprised why he was laughing and for the win he was laughing at me. He is looking at me and then whispered at our other friend and look at me and both of them laugh more harder and louder. I looked at myself, my pants and my shorts, if there are some dirt been in me and I've notice it for an hour ago. I keep looking but there were no dirt or anything. They keep looking at my lower body. I'm worried because I think they seen blood stain or whatever but I do believe the my monthly period is over. My  other friend also laugh at me. So three of them were laughing at me. How great I looked at my feet, yes it sort of dirty compare to other women feet. After 10 mins of wondering why they are laughing at me. I feel that something wrong on my foot. I'm wearing my friend who first laugh slipper. I didn't notice it because we have the same color of slipper. I laugh when I knew hahahha.

Sunday, February 19, 2012

University Fair


I attended this Annual Fair, here on University of the Philippines. Because of sudden rain, the grounds were not in good shape. Attendees shoes, slippers and foot are full of mud. Thanks to God because it doesn't rain on night. Popular bands perform at around 11pm. Me and my friend were felt sick and worst because of the JJ's Jumping Jologs when the BANDS are rockers and perform rock song, all of them jump, dance, shout, sings and push the people near to them. My bones almost crushed because of them and my slipper been broke. They don't care if some people will be hurt, shout and hate them. The security of the Fair had hard time to stop them on their acts. What I did is I looked at them with my horrified eye and shout them to just calm and we were hurt on their trip. Me and my friend are near on the front so are spot is BEST but it became worst because of this JJ's. Thanks to the awesome BANDS, despite of the hardship with the JJ's they make me smile and happy with there performances and music. All I think on that moments is GOOD VIBES. We didn't also eat, sit and look around at the venue because of the mud and mass people. After the Kamikazee performance we go straight to the dorm to rest and to burst our anger and depression on the JJ's. Despite of this dreadful experience I'm still happy because this was the best and unforgettable FAIR for me. My money is not wasted, the performance is so awesome and even I'm tired and horrified, I survive.

Saturday, February 18, 2012

Sound check


Soundcheck:
 
Refrain: 
♫♫ Kung ikaw ay tae,
At ako ay bowl,
Wala kang choice kundi mahulog sa akin  ♫♫
 
Chorus: 
♫♫ Tae ka lang
At ako ang 'yong mahiwagang bowl (echo XD)
Tae ka lang
At ako ang 'yong mahiwagang bowl ♫♫

This song is used as teaser by a resident of UP dormitory
TWO THUMBS UP

Friday, February 17, 2012

SO cute



 I burst of laughing when I saw this picture, I'm a koala bear lover i prefer cute Koala on cuddling and puffy teddy bears.

Thursday, February 16, 2012

Cosmic LOVE


Cosmic Love by Florence and The Machine

A falling star fell from your heart and landed in my eyes
I screamed aloud, as it tore through them, and now it's left me blind

The stars, the moon, they have all been blown out
You left me in the dark
No dawn, no day, I'm always in this twilight
In the shadow of your heart

And in the dark, I can hear your heartbeat
I tried to find the sound
But then it stopped, and I was in the darkness,
So darkness I became

The stars, the moon, they have all been blown out
You left me in the dark
No dawn, no day, I'm always in this twilight
In the shadow of your heart

I took the stars from our eyes, and then I made a map
And knew that somehow I could find my way back
Then I heard your heart beating, you were in the darkness too
So I stayed in the darkness with you

The stars, the moon, they have all been blown out
You left me in the dark
No dawn, no day, I'm always in this twilight
In the shadow of your heart

The stars, the moon, they have all been blown out
You left me in the dark
No dawn, no day, I'm always in this twilight
In the shadow of your heart

Random Meaning:

i believe this song is about a girl who falls blindedly in love with a guy (a falling star feel from your heart and landed in my eyes) (its left me blind) and as time goes on she is still falling head over heels for him but he doesnt care (you left me in the dark) (and in the dark i can hear your heart beat i try to find the sound but then it stops and i was in the darkness so darkness i became)and then she realizes how wrong shes been all along about this guy and she trys to get away (i took the stars from my eyes and then i made a map, i knew that some how i could find my way back) but then she sees him again and she realizes she still loves him too much to leave him but he still doesnt really care about her (i heard your heart beating you were in the darkness too, so i stayed in the darkness with you) 

I believe that this song is about a woman who fell in love with a man unexpectedly. Then after being in a relationship with him for a while she feels that he doesn't love her like she loves him. So she feels like she lives in darkness, in a dark place, where she really isn't truely happy because she doesn't feel loved and cannot be herself. She is always trying to make him happy. She is always waiting to see if he will change and start showing her he loves her and bring her out of the darkness but he doesn't. Then she trys to find the strenghth to leave the darkness by leaving him but every time he senses she is trying to leave him he shows up and appears to be in the darkness too. He lies to her and cries out to her saying he really needs her to keep her from leaving him because he doesn't want to be alone. As he continues to cry out to her, she believes that he really does love her and that something else must be to blame for keeping them both in the darkness so she just stays there with him in denial. Kind of like an abusive relationship.

Wednesday, February 15, 2012

‎51 Things ABOUT GUYS:

1. Guys hate sluts.

2. "Hey, are you busy?" or "Are you doing something?" ~ two phrases guys open with to stop from stammering on the phone.

3. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.

4. Before they call, guys try to plan out a little about what they're gonna say so there aren't awkward pauses, but once he's on the phone he forgets it all and makes it up as he goes.

5. Guys go crazy over a girl's smile.

6. Guys will do anything just to get you to notice him.

7. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend or ex love-interest. Unless they're goin for the let-her-complain-to-you-and-then-have-her-realize-
how-wonderful-and-nice-you-are method.

8. A guy who likes you wants to be the only guy you talk to.

9. Boyfriends need to be reassured often that they're still loved.

10. Don't talk about your guy friends to your boyfriend.

11. Guys get jealous easily.

12. Guys are more emotional than they'd like people to think.

13. Giving a guy a hanging message like "You know what?!..uh...nevermind.." would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking. And he'll assume he did something wrong and he'll obsess about it trying to figure it out.

14. Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.

15. Guys hate asking parents for money to buy girls presents. So they come up with ideas like saving their lunch money for a week. But it never works because guys are always hungry so they end up asking the parents for money anyway.

16. Girls are guys' weaknesses.

17. Guys are very open about themselves.

18. It's good to test a guy first before you trust him. But don't let him wait too long.

19. Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.

20. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don't need to give advice.

21. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.

22. Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships.

23. Guys will brag about anything.

24. Guys use words like hot or cute to describe girls. We rarely use beautiful. If a guy uses that, he likes you.

25. Guys think WAY too much. One small thing a girl does, even if she doesn't notice it can make the guy think about it for hours, trying to figure out what it meant.

26. Guys seek for advice from girls not other guys. Because most guys think alike, so if one guy's confused, then we're all confused.

27. Any guy could write out a rulebook or advice book for flirting, but no guy can write out a book about relationships.

28. Try to be as straightforward as possible.

29. A guy has to experience rejection, because if he's too-good-never-been-busted, never been in love and hurt, he won't be mature and grown up.

30. If the guy does something stupid in front of the girl, he will think about it for the next couple days or until the next time he spends time with the girl.

31. No matter how much guys talk about asses and boobs, personality is key.

32. Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.

33. Guys worry about the thin line between being compassionate and being whipped.

34. If a guy looks unusually calm and laid back, he's probably faking it and is spazzing inside.

35. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl, he really is. Guys rarely say that.

36. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying, "Please come and listen to me."

37. Guys don't really have final decisions.

38. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him. It doesn't happen that often, so when it does, you know something's up.

39. If your best guy friend seems to avoid you or is never around when you're with your boyfriend, he's probably jealous and likes you.

40. When a guy looks at you for longer than a second, he's definitely thinking something.

41. Guys like femininity not feebleness.

42. Guys don't like girls who punch harder than they do.

43. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.

44. Don't be a snob. Guys can be intimidated and give up easily.

45. Everything in moderation. Put on makeup, wear perfume. Just not too much.

46. Guys talk about girls more than girls talk about guys.

47. Guys hate rejection, but they hate being led on even more.

48. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions and are MAD confusing but somehow are drawn even more to them.

49. A guy would give his left nut to be able to read a girl's mind for a day.

50. No guy can handle all his problems by his own. He's just too stubborn to admit it

51. Not all guys are assholes. Just because ONE is a jackass doesn't mean he represents ALL of them.



POSSIBILITY



POSSIBILITY is one best example why we are encourage to pursue something that we like to achieve, 
obtain and to be somebody.


"It's the possibility that keeps us going, not the guarantee"


FOR LOVE..
this is the quote of those who are still waiting, hang and hoping that one day their potentials will love them back. 
This is the LOVE not asking for exchange and to be love back at all and this was you call STUPIDITY.
I don't know but this STUPIDITY makes a person to smile, to brighten up his day and everything. There is such thing that even that someone doing nothing so special or cute, he/she just makes you giggle and smiles.


FOR CAREER
We can able to shape more our potentials and talents. It will motivates us and build our confidence to pursue something. It will create positive attitude and views in life.


FOR SELF
This will help our individuality there is always HOPE and every story, matter and situation. It will help us strive or be more confident to do something beyond our capability and limitation.

Tuesday, February 14, 2012

Cards



Last Night Me and my Friends meet-up to bond, talk and eat. After we ate, one of our friend read our fortunes in love by using cards. She tell me to think the guy that I like/love after i shuffle the cards she arranged the cards, separate other cards and everything. According to her our feeling for each other is MUTUAL, there is no hindrances between of us. And there is a guy who is influential in my life helping and supporting me. I tried it again this time I think another guy that I like too. I shuffle again the cards and she arranged it again. According to her we like each other but I like him more, and he is more busy right now in his career.

Well the cards give me idea on how I could manage this feeling of mine, I think her reading on cards on the second guy is CORRECT, we haven't yet talked after our first date ad he seems so busy, I don't want to take his time for the stuff that he prioritize. On contrary on the first guy, I don't know if it is TRUE? because he is a random person. He makes me feel that I'm special and everything by visiting, talking, teasing and everything at first I will blushed and giggle on the crazy stuff he acts whenever we are together but when the moment lasts I would think of it that he is just like that on his CLOSE friend. Yes, where Friends, that complicates everything. As day we talked he asked me twice if I love him? I can't answered him straight. Simply because I want to save my heart and I don't know if he likes me too? I know that I'm selfish and everything but sometimes this is the right thing to do and what i really want to do is to save the FRIENDSHIP that we have and I would not ask for more and anything but the relationship that we have.


Monday, February 13, 2012

What is LOve?

Everyone of us have a lot of definition of what  LOVE is. We define Love on how we feel it, show it and think of it. Person who are been surrounded by friends LOVE for them is being happy with the people with the same mood, interest and smiles. In short Love is HAPPINESS, they feel love when they are just happy. Person with in relationship LOVE for them is more deeper being with there someone was the best time that they have even they are just talking and eating every moments being together is AWESOME. Person who are MARRIED, LOVE for them is RESPECT and RESPONSIBILITY each  of the party is oblige to do anything for there partner to make the love still stronger and ponder.

Love for me is giving someone respect, compromise, romance, commitment, care, trust and happiness.
Love someone with there Imperfections.
Learn how to let go and move-on from heart breaks.
Don't be afraid to LOVE again.
And share your love to everyone like giving your TIME, CARE and TALENT.

Love is everywhere is up to you on how you will APPRECIATE it.




:)

Sunday, February 12, 2012

Everytime

Last night, i looked at my sister playlist of song on her Cellphone. I played the song Everytime by Janet Jackson, when I heard the beat and the musicality, I'm in love with the song even i haven't heard yet the lyrics. i bluetooth the song on my phone Well for my dear readers I do love a song by it's beat even the lyrics is not that meaningful and everything. This morning I played the song and surprisingly the lyrics was just a BOMB. I'm so so in love and i can relate. It's the song that so I need before when I'm having doubt if I will continue loving this guy that I met, let just called him Mr. RANDOM he is charming, honest, funny, bubbly , random and so very friendly. We are so good friends and I can tell to him without hesitation what I do feel, my point of view and everything under the sea. One day when I'm with him and depressed, I create a joke, I tell him that I'm liking a guy (which he is) and I've think the guy is liking someone and because of that I'm depressed and I'm having thought of stopping myself on liking him more. From that day he always asking about the guy, who is and if I've seen or talked with the guy, describe the guy and everything. Because of this silly I created we became closer and really awkward how I describe him to his self. My feelings for him became deeper and romantic. He is also having a hint that he is the guy the way I describe. He asked me many times if he is the guy but I didn't always answered him straight I always change the topic I don't want to tell him he is not the guy and he is the guy. First, I don't want to confess to him he is the guy and I don't want to deny that he is the guy.

Then the day comes he asked me again if he is the guy that I like on that moment he is serious and warned me that if I will not tell to him who is the guy or if he is not the guy, he will never assumed that he is the guy EVER. I don't know what pushed me to confessed. And after my reason for keeping it to him, he answered me that he will think about it. He heard a lot of negative thing from the guy or to him. I tell my side that I'm afraid to tell him because what if we don't have the same feeling and everything,. Wait I will cut the story here.

These are my reason why I do like the song It just give me ideas and thought why I'm afraid to LOVE HIM and to continue what I feel.


Wednesday, February 8, 2012

The Ladder Theory


The Ladder Theory

by TOBE HITCH on MARCH 17, 2009
Post image for The Ladder Theory
Here’s an interesting concept in the dating world, The Ladder Theory. The ladder theory is ultimately quite simple: men have one ladder, women have two ladders. The ladder represents our willingness to “date” someone. For instance, the higher someone is on the ladder, the more likely we are to date them. The lower they are, unfortunately, the less likely we would ever consider pursuing a relationship with them.
If both male and female had one ladder, it would make things infinitely easier! However, girls have both a friend’s ladder and a “potential” ladder, whereas guys put all their cross gender relationships on the same ladder.
Basically, when a girl meets Guy X and Guy Y, she quickly evaluates both and then determines that Guy X is a guy she sees as someone she could “hook up” with while Guy Y is a guy she would never hook up with. As a result of these conclusions, each guy finds a spot on their respective ladders. Guy X is on the “potential ladder”, and Guy Y is on the “friends ladder”.
Here’s the kicker, the part that (for many guys) sucks a heck of a lot in this theory. The Girl, generally speaking, is willing to spend just as much time and show just as much affection toward the guys on her friend’s ladder as she does with the guys on her potential ladder. The reason this sucks is because the guy who’s on the friend’s ladder can’t tell whether the girl is interested or not, because she’s willing to invest and spend so much time with him!
To make matters worse, the girl usually fails to adequately notify Guy Y that he is only a “friend”. This is usually because girls really like the attention that Guy Y’s would give her. She is in denial that he “likes her”, and puts off confronting that reality as long as possible. Because of this lack of communication, the guy on the friend’s ladder begins to shamelessly pursue this girl only to find out to his horrible misery that…SYKE. He got dissed. And he fails. At life. Sucks to be the guy on the friend’s ladder.
Guys on the potential ladder can usually make a move successfully on the girl, unless he does something stupid that turns the girl off.
Now, on the other side, guys have only one ladder. These are the rules: when a guy meets a girl, she is either on the top of the ladder, or the bottom of the ladder.
Although this seems similar to the girl’s ladder, the key difference is that girls on the bottom of his ladder will not get “special attention”. As a matter of fact, guys really only spend a huge amount of time with girls on the top of their ladder. Furthermore, while guys can almost never make it from the “friends ladder” to the “potential ladder”, girls adjust positions on the one ladder a lot easier based on which girl gives the guy the most attention.
So in summary, girls, when they first meet a guy, place him on one of the two ladders: friend, or potential. Guys place a girl on the top or bottom. Girls can shift positions on the ladder, but guys are pretty much stuck on whatever ladder they start on. Well, let me state that you can switch ladders, but it takes a LOT of work, effort, energy, depression…most of the times, it’s not worth it. Good luck and happy hunting!
COMMENT;  The theory explains everything. The write gives the girls and boys what is there perception or feeling in there acquaintance. for more RELATIONSHIP THEORY VISIT this site

Monday, February 6, 2012

Maybe :)

Falling in love is easy. But fighting for it is hard.

I've been in love for two times as an EXPERIENCED. 'm still having hard time to control my emotion when the one that I love is just beside me, talking to me and with me. It is easy to love everything that he/she makes you love you and once you FALL it so hard to escape.You want the moment and the feeling to last and to be forever. But NOTHING LAST FOREVER everything has it limit. The hardest situation is when you are just the one who is in love and the other one is not interested, not the same feeling and more worst can't handle you because of his/her priorities in life the everlasting excuses of the people who are afraid in commitment and pain.
It hard to ease the pain especially when you are just the only one hurt and in pain. You will self-pity and might lose confident. 

The best way to cope up with this FAILURE is to accept that everything happens for a reason, don't ever stop to show your care and love for someone because the BEST LOVE is not asking someone to return or exchange the love that you give and Give someone that likes you to show to you how she loves you. MOVE-ON with the words and moments that make you SAD and DEPRESS there was a lot of thing to look forward and a lot of people would like to see that you are MOVING FORWARD. 

Don't be in a hurry to MOVE-ON because everything is on a process you can't just move on in one click or a second it takes time to HEAL. You can say that you MOVE_ON if only you remember the moments that makes sad but you don't feel any pain and sadness, you just smile and proud that it happen to you and how great you are in able to cope up with it. :)


Friday, February 3, 2012

Horror Movie

Yesterday, I watched a Horror movie THE Maid is a Singaporean movie. The actress is one of the Best Actress in the Philippines. The story is about the Maid wherein she is seeing a lot of ghost because at that time it was Ghost Month. I've been still digesting and laughing at the freaky script. The scene is the MAid is telling her boss that she is seeing ghost everywhere and it really frightened her and the ghost also haunt her. The Boss did reply this " It ghost month, it just for 30 days. Don't worry and then smile

The Boss were so realistic and brave whatever... Anyone will have a hard time to sleep and move and the worst scenario is you may became insane. I really burst at laughing when I heard it last night. I like also the twist of the story so for me the movie two thumb out. This is the first horror movie i watched were i laughed at the script.


Thursday, February 2, 2012

Depression and Frusration

Why we are depressed and frustrated?

Because we didn't able to reach our expectation and other's expectation to us or our expectation with them or in ourselves.

What is expectation?
Expectation- the act or state of looking forward or anticipating.
All of us do expect why? because expectation motivates or encourage us to  do our best so we can test our capability or other capability on how he act or do something on his way either it their PASSION or NEEDED.
Expectation develop someone SELF-ESTEEM and CHARACTER to be who she/he want to be. Once we reach our expectation and others, its an achievement and from this you could strive to dream big and attain something and pressed yourself to do more harder and difficult thing to achieve.

On other hand, when you can't reach your expectation from yourself and other then you begun to develop the depression and frustration.

Expectation from others for me is easy to cope up if you fail to respond. In able to cope up just think that you did your best and look for the things that comfort you like eating sweet, watching movies or whatsoever. From that point you will strive to do more. And just don't mind them because you didn't promise anything to them and you don't ask them to expect something to you.

Expectation in yourself for me is more harder to cope up. Because from your own expectation you can test yourself on what is your capability to do something and you will realize that there are things that beyond your reach. At this point you start to feel LOSER and a FAILURE. And you think that if i can do this and that how about the bigger thing to come up, how can I cope up with them. My only advice is look for something or someone wherein you can release your emotion and depression. It is effective because Someone to talk or something to do help you to realize that you can so something aside from your expectations in your self.

LESSON: Never EXPECT too MUCH.
                 DEPRESSION and FRUSTRATION can be cope up just be open minded.




Wednesday, February 1, 2012

Your the ONE

To the First one who view this BLOG. I LOVE YOU LOLS.
No, I'm just joking well thanks for viewing this Blog.
As a prize I could share you some secret of mind or I could send you some of my notes
on my other blog which I use to be my diary.
Just email me at lady_felicity27@yahoo.com. And tell me your first reaction in my blog

Thanks